Relationships
can be really exhilarating but they can also be destroyed by
immaturity. These are signs that your partner is immature.
Most guys have a childish side to
their personality and like to be the big kid sometimes, but some men
take it to the extreme. At first, you might find his immaturity quite
endearing, but that childishness can wear a bit thin after a while.
Don’t get caught out dating a guy who can’t seem to take life seriously
at all and look for these signs that you are dating an immature man.
1. Immature man hates being depended on
One of the most obvious signs of an
immature man is that he absolutely dislikes being depended on. When
things go wrong, the immature man won’t be there helping you out. The
men-boys of the world will do anything to avoid being the one that
people depend on. He’d rather ignore problems and hope that they go
away.
2. He can’t hold a serious conversation
Another sign that your man has yet to
grow up is his inability to hold an intelligent and meaningful
conversation. Communication will not be on his list of skills, he would
rather make a joke of things and move on to a lighter topic quickly.
3. He’s never had a proper girlfriend before
Next one of obvious signs of an
immature man is that he probably never stayed in a meaningful
relationship before in his life. That doesn’t bode well for you, because
this lad has a lot of learning to do and you are going to have to be
the teacher. Starting a career in teaching is probably not exactly what
you had in mind when you met him. So you might want to think twice about
staying with this type of guy.
4. Immature man has no idea what he wants for the future
If your man is immature then it is
quite likely that he doesn’t plan much beyond tomorrow, let alone for
the next ten years. Living day by sound like a great idea, but a mature
man will, at least, have some idea of what kind of future he wants for
himself.
5. You’re only his girlfriend when that fits on with his plans
If your man only goes out with you,
when it suits him and is willing to cancel, at the drop of a hat, to go
out with his buddies instead, then this is a definite sign that he needs
to do some growing up. A real man will show some commitment and be
willing to make you his priority.
6. Immature man can never make up his mind
Another one of clear signs of an
immature man is that, alongside his lack of commitment will be a lack of
ability to be decisive too. You’ll probably find that it’s you who are
making all the decisions for him and making all the running in the
relationship. Just like a kid, he will be perfectly happy for someone
else to take all the tough decisions.
7. He probably can’t hold down a job either
An immature guy will probably find it
hard to take a job seriously, and so he flits from one job to another,
if he even has a job at all. He finds work dull and boring, and all that
getting up early and being serous is too much of a drag for him to be
putting up with.
8. Nothing is ever his fault
Next one of obvious signs of an
immature man is that, just like a petulant child, he will never take the
blame for anything, he will never accept responsibility for his actions
and he will certainly never say that he is sorry. He will always have
an excuse, or blame someone else, just like a n*ughty little boy would.
9. Immature man can be really spiteful
Another trait of an immature mind is
the ability to be spiteful and cruel. He probably doesn’t really mean to
be really hurtful, but he’s not mature enough to realise when he does.
If a man really loves you, he wouldn’t want to hurt you; an immature man
doesn’t take life seriously enough to even worry about things like
that.
10. He eats nothing but pizza and beer
You can always tell an immature man by
his shopping list. Mr Man-child is likely to have nothing more than
frozen pizza and beer on his, and his idea of sophistication will be
drinking his beer from a glass. Fine dining certainly won’t be on the
agenda, when you date a man who has yet to grow up.
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